Putting out... or not

There are just some moments in life that are awkward… like the time I made a bunch of my guy friends watch Tyra with me. It was the episode when she had the velvet clitoris puppet and told the audience “your vagina is like a self cleaning oven” yea… not something you watch with the guys.

That ranked up there with when I was in 6th grade and my mom took me bra shopping. Being a tomboy I hated the whole experience (I rocked a sports bra and taped my boobs down up until this point… I know you are probably thinking that is weird… but some girls just have problems dealing with puberty okay!) Well… 2 boys from my class were in the store with their mom and walked up to me right as my mom was holding some frilly pink bra concoction to my chest. I was mortified! Till this day Ryan and I still joke about it. It wasn’t till a few years ago I realized that my mom still bought my bras (I made her do this so I would not be caught in the act again)… I now buy my own.

Right before I was off to Texas to begin my college experience mom took me to do some dorm shopping at Wal-mart… at least…. that’s what I was suckered into believing we were doing. At the time Des Moines only had one Wal-mart so you would see everyone and there mamma up in that joint.

Me “Mom, why are we going to the medicine section… you have to pick up a prescription?”

Mom “No, I want to show you something.”

Me “I have deodorant…”

Mom “I know”

Me “I have razors”

Mom “I KNOW just come with me!”

I did not have a good feeling about this. As I suspected…. there I was in the condom isle with my mom!

Me “Why are we looking at condoms?”

Mom “Because you are about to be 14 hours away from me and I need to make sure you are protected!”

Me (I joke when I am mad uncomfortable) “Well… can we just go get a gun or a knife or something?”

Mom “Your health is a serious matter. Now, I am 45 years old and I am done raising kids. I am not sending you off to school and you bring me back some kid to raise.”

Me “I’m not going to get pregnant!”

Mom “You have sex, you will get pregnant!”

Me “I won’t have sex can we just get out of here!”

My mom then began to explain the difference between ribbed, spermicide, and the brands. I don’t know if I was mad that I was getting condom lessons 101… or the fact that she thought there was a possibility I was going to be turning tricks at school!

Mom “Now pick some out.”

Me “I’m GOOD!”

Mom “I want to know that I sent you off with all the knowledge. Pick some out!”

Right as I was reaching for some random condoms (I was temped to get the Magnums, but I thought now was not the time to joke) this guy I used to talk to (and never had sex with) came over on his way to pick up a prescription. HE JUST LOOKED AT ME AND KEPT IT MOVING!

Mom “Hi Patrick!”

Me “ OHHHHH NOOOOOO!!!!!!!! I’m LEAVING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

I then took off running out of Wal-mart. My mom met me like 10 min later by the car.

Mom “That’s not like you to run??”

Me “He probably thinks I got turned out!!!!!!!”

Mom “Turned out?”

Me “I see I’m going to have to teach YOU some stuff!”

Mom “Well… let’s just go back in so you can get your stuff….”

Me “How about we just go to Target!”

A few days later Patrick called.

Pat "So... when did you start putting out."

Me "Never. Mom was helping me shop...."

Pat (busts out laughing) "What in the hell!!!!"

Me "You know I intern in the Governors’ office. I am presenting on safe sex practices and the benefit of living in a pro choice society."

(that dummy believed me HAHAHAHAHAHA)

I Know You!

I was out on the down the other night when a guy came at me with the most disturbing line EVER.

Guy “You in here looking all good.”

Me “Thanks”

Guy “You seem young… how old are you?”

Me “24….”

Guy “Damn! You look good… Like you 12 or something!”

Me “That has to be the most Ped-O-phile comment I have ever heard.”

Guy “Naw, I just like young looking girls.”

Me “I have a feeling you hang out at schools during recess.”

With that I walked away. WTF is wrong with people these days!!!!!!!!!!! You have no idea how messed up I was after that.

Okay on to the main story. So when I worked at Ebony part of my job was to give the celebrities who came through tours.

Boss “Jessica, can you give a tour around 3”

Me “Sure! Who is it?”

Boss “Jaheim”

Me (singing) “You betta put that heffa first!”

Boss “I thought it was “woman” where is “heffa coming from”

Me “He’s kind of hood… I have the feeling when he was in the studio he really wanted to say heffa.”

Boss “You’re silly”

Actually I have this thing where no matter how uplifting a song is to women…. I like to make it degrading. Whenever the word “woman” “girl” or “Lady” is sung… replace it with one of the following: bitch, hoe, or heffa. I blame my constant listening of hip-hop for this. No matter how beautiful a song is… It must be destroyed. Try it sometime. Like when a song by Musiq or Rubben comes on… change the words. I promise you will laugh. ANYWAY.
As I got off the elevator to meet Mr. Ghetto love he totally played my life! For some reason a lot of staff were in the lobby to meet him. He took one look at me and said….

Jaheim “HEY! I know you!”

Me “No…. you don’t”

Jaheim “Girl stop! I know you. You were in our section at the lounge the other night! I don’t forget a face!”

(I’m so serious when I say… I have NO idea what he was talking about… and even if I did and had met him… why was he trying to make me look like some groupie….specially at my play of employment!!???!!!???! )

Me (not caring the staff was there… I had to put this dude in his place) “Naw nigga go on with that! I’ve never seen you in my life besides on TV and I don’t appreciate you coming here trying to put me out like that!” (keep in mind I was working at Ebony… not that it makes it better that I said the “n” word… but my “hoodness” came out and not a soul blamed me for it.)

The whole lobby was quiet.

Jaheim “My bad, my bad. I didn’t mean anything by it.”

Me “It’s whatever let’s move on.” (I stuck out my hand) I’m Jessica and I will be taking you around today. Thanks for coming through.”

Jaheim “Now I feel bad… hit me with the handshake. I see you young professional.”

With that I began the tour. However, Jaheim was having IRS troubles (smh) so he spent the whole time sitting down YELLING at someone.

Jaheim (to me) “You they coming after my money! I have to handle this I have to handle this!”

Me “Do what you have to do. You need some privacy?”

Jaheim “Naw, I’m going to be too loud for privacy.”

I sat there and listened to the entire thing… which took about an hour. It was the dead of summer and this dude had on a white bubble coat and some Timberlands. I was hot just looking at him. I never finished the tour because by the time he was done with the phone… one of the editors was ready to interview him. He signed a poster for me (like I really cared… no clue where that is now) and I went back to my desk.

When I walked back to my area my boss came out.
Boss (mocking Jaheim) “HEY! I KNOW YOU!!!!!!!!!!!” (busting out laughing)

Me “I mean… was he serious???”

That’s when my friends/ coworkers James and LaToyia came over.

James “I mean… I knew you got invited out a lot, but I did not know you get it poppin like that!”

Me “That’s not even funny…”

James “For real though… how do you know Jaheim?”

Me “I DON’T! No clue what that dude was even talking about.”

James “Why you lying?” (James was always checking me like he was my man or something… Boy, BYE!)

Me “If you think about it… he would have only been in town for 2 days. Last night I was at the Sox game… and the night before that is when we all went and played pool… so there is no way I was at the club in his “section”.”

James (Laughing) “YOU RIGHT, YOU RIGHT!”

Everyone in the office started laughing about the situation. It still was not and still is not funny to me… but whatever. At least I had a good alibi. And for the record…. I would never try to get at a dude with braids… hello… you are like 35… CUT THAT ISH OFF!

I Rock Free Draws!

My mom does not purchase ANYTHING unless it is 75% off. That was the rule in my house. If we wanted her to buy it… whatever it was it had to be on sale… and at 75% off.

Me “Mom, can I get this Tommy shirt?”

Mom “How much is it?”

Me “$20”

Mom “What is the regular price?”

Me “$40”

Mom “That is only 50%... you can get it when it’s $10”

That’s how my childhood went. I always ended up getting what I wanted… just months later. My mother also purchases things in bulk. If Walmart is having a sale on toilet paper… the whole family goes and purchases the limit. We go several times during the week until the sale is over. When I was really little mom would purchase first, then turn to me and my brother…. giving us coupons telling the cashier to ring everything separate at the sale price. I know the cashier thought we were crazy! I was 5 and my brother 3… handing her coupons telling her we would like to purchase tampons. My mom could run a corner store out of out basement.

When I was home over Christmas she woke me up at the crack of dawn one morning.

Mom “JESSICA GET UP! I NEED YOUR HELP!”

Me “Can it wait… it’s like 7am!” (My job in NY did not start till 11… I can’t remember the last time I was up that early)

Mom “No, they will be gone by then. Just throw some clothes on and come downstairs. This will only take a sec, you can go back to sleep when you get back.”

I put on some sweats and walked downstairs.

Me (rubbing sleep out my eyes and popping gum in my mouth) “What is it?”

Mom “Walgreens has a sale on blow dryers. They are $10. I have already been out this morning and bought 5. Your father is out now rounded some up.”

Me “ARE YOU SERIOUS! WHAT DO YOU NEED WITH MILLIONS OF BLOW DRYERS!”

Mom “Well, you know how they don’t last that long.”

Me “Mom, you don’t even blow dry your hair!”

Mom “You do. Now when your dryer goes out we will have some.”

Me “That happens like once every 3 years. I’m going back to sleep!”

Mom “Come on now! There is a limit of one per person. You will need to hit up a couple of Walgreens. There are 2 on 50th one over on 61st and then if you want you can go to the one over by Famous Dave’s.”

She hands me the stack of sale papers she collected for this project.

Me “These are Conair dryers….”

Mom “I know”

Me “They aren’t even GOLDEN HOT or REVELON! Conair is not that dope to be burning all this gas over.”

With that I left and went to Walgreens. I went to 2. These blow dries were Hot Pink. WTF. Who uses a hot pink blow dryer? This would be the reason why they were on sale. When I got home my dad was there. He was cracking up when he saw me walk in with the Walgreens bag.

Dad (Laughing) “How many did you get?”

Me “2”

Mom (trying to be upset!) “ONLY 2!”

Me “I’m going back to sleep.”

Mom "Does Charreah, Richelle, Dawniece, or Meek need a blow dryer for Chirstmas?"

Me "They good."

As I was laying in my bed I could not help but laugh at the time in college when Victoria Secret put a coupon in the free campus newspaper for a free panty. Me and my roommate made it a competition to see who can get the most undies. I gathered 75 news papers and everyday I went to the ONE Victoria Secret in the city multiple times a day. At the end I used all the coupons giving me a total of 75 pairs of draws. My roommate had 25. LOL... not only that, I had 75 of those little pink Vicky shopping bags! I bet they will never put a free coupon in a free paper ever again!

One morning after a wild college night out my friend who stayed over and I decided to go to the movies.

Me “The movie starts in an hour.”

Homegirl “I need to go shower and change.”

Me “Like you don’t wear my clothes anyway. I have soap and towels… no need to go home for that!”

Homegirl “I need underwear!”

I went back to my room and came back with a handful of brand new Victoria Secret Draws! LOL

Me “Girl, what you want! I got white, pink, red, black, polka dot!”

Homegirl (cracking up!) “I’ll take the pink ones!”

Me “Okay in the pink I got brief, boy shorts, bikini, low cut, high rise, and thong!”

Homegirl “LOL! You are stupid for having 75 pairs of new draws!”

I guess apples don’t fall too far from the tree. When mom found out about my Vicky scam she was excited!

Mom “That’s my girl! I raised you right! Nothing beats free panties! Can I get some?”

Me “I’ll trade you for some toothpaste and toilet paper… we are out!”

Mom “Deal.”

My brother, on the other hand, had a different response.

Brother "You really did not keep going to a store and coming out only with a free pair of underwear without another purchase."

Me "Yes I did."

Brother "Excuse my lang... but that is hella niggerish! HAHAHAHAHA"

I Need That Special Delivery

(Yall know the above was the CUT! )

This next story I am dedicating to one of my best friends in the world. When you are blessed to find good people like Richelle you hold on to them. Since 8th grade we have been through everything together. She is one of the strongest and realist people I have ever met and I know my life would not be the same if she was not in it (we are not gay LOL, why do people always feel the need to say that?) I so killed my loving statement by adding that. Oh wells!

In a sense you can say I attended 2 high schools. I went to Roosevelt for a few periods, but the majority of my day was spent at Central Campus. This school was basically for students who knew what they wanted to pursue in college and allowed us to get college credit while beginning our majors early. I took Radio TV and Film.

Roosevelt was down the street from Central so I did not use all the travel time we received to get from school to school. I would use this extra 2 hours to go to the mall, get my hair done, or go home. It was pure comedy when I would come to school with a side ponytail… then return with cornrows or a fresh perm.

On the way back to Roosevelt I would grab fast food. While at my locker stuffing my face Mr. A (the FAT hall monitor/ school security) called down the hall at me.

Mr. A “MISS WILSON!”

I quickly threw the bag of food in my locker… I knew it was a rule not to eat in the hall.

Mr. A “I saw that. Open your locker”

Me “Do you have a warrant?”

Mr. A “Stop being silly and open your locker”

Me “What’s silly about me knowing the law?”

Mr. A “I see someone wants detention!”

Me “I can’t have a detention… I have late play rehearsal tonight and this is the only time I have to eat!”

Mr. A “I don’t care what you have to do… give me the bag.”

Me “I swear, you are like a food bounty hunter! Every time, no matter where you are in the building you sniff it out!”

I opened my locker and handed over my fries, nuggets, and apple pie. Mr. A had the nerve to proceed to eat my food in my face. Talking reckless.

Mr. A “You don’t need this anyway. Aren’t you on the track team? Now get to class before I write you up!”

Me (being funny) “I got to get my weight up for shot put! AND you took my Taco Bell last week! I don’t have money to be feeding you!”

Mr. A “Then perhaps you should stop eating in the hall. Have a good day and a lovely play practice.”

I watched as he waddled down the hall eating my food. I was pissed.

On my way to rehearsal, I ran into one of my homeboys who was madly in love with my friend Richelle. It was one of those situations where he was WAY more into her than she was into him. He was holding this raggedy dirty vase with this half dead carnation in it (I’ll go ahead and say carnation to make it better…. But it looked more like a dandelion to me). He was looked really sad.

Me “Why so down ole chum!”

Boy “Well, I wanted to give this flower to Richelle, but she is in detention again.”

LOL. Richelle was always in detention! She was not bad, but our school gave them out all willy nilly. She was probably in there for one of the following: being “tardy” (can I just say I hate the word “tardy” It offends me… like it’s a way for teachers to call you “retarded and get away with it), illegal parking or laughing at the inappropriate moment in class (at least those are the reasons why I ever issued detention).

Me “You really want her to get this flower huh?” This was the most bootleg looking gift EVER… and any chance I could get to embarrass a friend I take. After all, what are friends for?

Boy “Yea, I got to get going and cannot wait for her to get out.”

Me “I’ll walk in detention and give this to her for you!”

Boy “You wouldn’t really bust up in detention and give them to her!” (clearly, he did not know who he was talking to).

Me “I sure will! She will love the attention! And this vase and carnation are AMAZING! I would LOVE for a guy to give me a gift like this in front of my peers!” (Ummm FALSE!)

I grabbed the dirt stained mustard colored vase and the weeds and walked into detention.

Teacher “WHAT ARE YOU DOING????!!!! You cannot just disrupt detention.”

Me “I have a special delivery for Richelle.”

Richelle’s nickname was Big Bird because of her high yeller skin. But at this moment… ELMO suited her better!

I sat the flower on her desk as the whole detention watched.

Me “These are from your boy!”

There were some snickers…. Richelle said nothing. If looks could kill I would be long gone.

Teacher “Would you like to join us?”

Me (busting out laughing at myself for walking in there and giving my friend this wack gift from someone she could care less about all because I knew the attention and others thinking she was “going out” with this guy would be embarrassing!) “No, I will be leaving now.”

Boy “What did she say???!!!??”

Me “I think she was impressed!” (I’m SOOOOO mean!)

I proceeded to Harlem Shake in the hall singing my version of the Bad Boy classic “Special Delivery”

I can’t remember if Richelle talked to me the next day or not. But if you can’t humiliate your friends… who can you humiliate!

Can You Hear Me Now????

Jo Jo (From K-Ci & Jo-Jo) Passes Out On Stage (around 1:45 mark)

Friday morning while watching Jojo pass out (on my blackberry) for the zillion time (see above video… when I get bored I watch it because it’s the most comical thing I have ever seen in my life. Between Jojo biting the dust, the raw emotion of K-Ci’s singing, and the bodyguard’s response… this clip is instant laughter and will forever be funny to me). ANYWAY, while watching it… my phone just broke. That’s right… the blackberry storm I have had for less than a week was broken. I could not even call out, receive calls or any data for that matter.

I decided to go to the Verizon on 34th street… I’m done messing with the Harlem location. As I was walking to the train… PLOP! Yea, bird dookie on my riding boots. You already know your day will be full of BS once you get shitted on.

I went home and changed my shoes. I got to Verizon and I’m highly upset because I this is a brand new phone and I’ve been in their store a total of 8 hours over the course of the week. I explained to the woman my situation.

Woman “Yea, this is a defective phone. Let’s get you a new one.”

Me “Thanks”

Manager “I hear you have been having phone issues?”

Me “You hear correctly. How is this the most reliable network? To keep it funky with you I have been at Verizon so many hours that yall need to put me on the payroll.”

Manager “Well, I’m sorry about that. I take it you would not like to take a survey rating products and service…..”

Me “Trust. I would give yall the lowest score ever.”

After spending an hour in the store (somehow they activated the new phone with my grandma’s phone number….. don’t ask) I walked around the corner to Ballys for a workout.

I was on the treadmill warming up before step aerobics when a guy approached me.

Guy “We need another player for our co-ed indoor soccer game…. Do you know how to play soccer?”

I have not played soccer since sophomore year of HS (unless you count when I was a councilor at the YMCA).

Me “Can I play a fullback or goalie?” (I was trying to do the least amount of work possible)

I joined the game and was having fun until they started getting extra serious. HELLO! We are not wearing protective gear. The next person to kick me in my shins was getting a beat down… before it got to that level…. I excused myself from the game.

Step class wore me out! I was wheezing up a storm. The 50 year old MIA 9 month pregnant woman was GETTING IT IN! She was the best in the class and put me to shame. I looked like the scene in “How Stella Got Her Groove Back” when Whoopi and Angela are on the beach working out… and Whoopi is in no kind of shape and just an overall hot mess…. that was me in this step class. 3 days later… and it still hurts to walk.

I decided to run some errands after the gym. I washed my hair there since it was a nice out… but I forgot my blow dryer so I just left it wet.

While in a store this awkwardly tall white guy tapped me on the shoulder.

Guy “Excuse me… have you been to the Caribbean spot on 34th and 10th?”

Me “No”

Guy “Really? I figured you being Caribbean you would have been there?”

Me “I’m not Caribbean.”

Guy “Oh, well, I thought all the pretty girls were from the Caribbean.”

Me “ You are mistaken. Why is it that the world has this fascination with people from “exotic places”? Is being black/ African American not good enough? Is it not pretty enough?

Quick Vent:

(Why does everyone feel the need to claim random stuff that is so far down the line? “My great grandfather is West Indian, My great great grandfather is white. Also, I have a great grandfather who is Jamaican”…. This quad-racial nonsense needs to end! People please cut this out! It is okay to be black. REALLY…. IT IS. And since moving to NY this is not the first fool to approach me on some you are pretty because you are _______ type stuff. Fill it in with Jamaican, Haitian, Nigerian, and Dominican because I have heard all of the above. I understand that to be African American more than likely means you have other stuff in the blood… and I get idea to identify when your parents are different races…but the great great grandparents…. GIRL/BOY BYE! It’s just getting out of hand. I blame Mariah and Tiger for this ish. )

Guy “I did not mean that… I meant….”

Me “What you meant was you got fooled by the wet and wavy.”

Guy “Excuse me?”

Me “My hair is wet… you mistook my kinks for curly tendrils… and I’m sure that these yoga pants I have on make my butt look rounder than usual…. So between the booty and the hair… you were fooled. But no, I am not Caribbean I am the product of the American slave trade.”

Guy “So where is the boyfriend? Does an Italian have a chance?” (I know since I said he was Italian… ladies you are thinking he was fine… but he wasn’t… just really tall with bad teeth…. In the words of grandma he was “built up all funny”).

Me “50 is with our son.”

Guy “50 cent?”

“Yes, my baby 50” (AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA)

That dude ran so fast from me! LOL! Ladies, if you don’t want to be bothered… tell the guy you are with a gangster rapper! Someone needs to give me a reality show and fast cause that right there was FUNNY!

That night I went to this lounge in the meat packing district with one of my homeboys. It was filled with men… my boy was upset… but it was good for me lol. Well, not really… these dudes were extra wack. The one guy that was cute…. I decided to approach. I have no problem being a female mack in a club situation…. Because I have no intention of really getting with this person. I think it’s lame to try to find love in the club and who really forms a lasting relationship out of that anyway? It’s all just sport here.

OH NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! This dude got to talking and his teeth looked like the talking Dunkey in Shrek!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Between that and the heavy Bronx accent (to the point I needed translation) … I excused myself extra fast! (but, "if i took one more drank imma end up F__ n youuuuuuu... is that what you wanna do shawty?" -T Pain)

Homeboy (laughing) “What happened?”

Me “Teeth complications. Close the tab… let’s leave.” (I was sippin on sprite and cran... not a drink since NYE for me)

We hopped a cab to this spot over on 30th and Park where a friend of a friend was having a birthday party.

Home boy “DAMN! I left my phone in the cab!”

Welp, so much for his phone.

The party was straight… but when you have to catch a train back uptown… check out is kind of early. I left around 2:40am.

This was my first time on the eastside this late (by myself with no one to split a cab to Harlem with)…. I took the 6 train to Grand Central station. I waited for 30 min for the shuttle until I realized the shuttle stops after 12am so I got on the 7 to Times Square then had to transfer to the 2 train… which was running local (stopping at every single stop). Since the 2 skips the part of Harlem where I live I had to get off at 135th street and take a cab the rest of the way home. I MISS DRIVING! And yall ask why I don’t go out on weekends anymore… because it’s like a 2 hour commute to the club and the drunk people on the train… I just can’t deal.

When I woke up the next morning…. my phone was not working. I threw on some clothes and went back to Verizon.

Woman “Sorry about that… your phone was programmed incorrectly.”

Me “Please get the manager.”

Manager “You look familiar.”

Me “I bet I do since I spend every waking moment in here. Look, you and I are about to sit down and you are going to write step by step directions as to the workings of this phone and also conduct whatever tests you need to do to make sure it functions something proper. I’m tired of this crap! CAN YOU HEAR ME NOW????????”

B!@$H Where's my Money?

Last July my friends and I flew to Chicago to attend the National Association of Black Journalist Convention (NABJ). Who would have known this would lead to me being stalked by a cabbie.

To save some money I stayed with my aunt and uncle out in the suburbs. I lived with them for 8 months after graduating college so they along with my cousins were excited to have me back for a few days. My car was over at my grandmothers and did not have the time to get it until later… so I just had someone take me to the train station (or borrowed their car) when I needed to go downtown for seminars.

The 2nd day of the conference I overslept. When I finally woke up the house was empty. I called my aunt.

Me “Hey, where did yall go?”

Aunt “Sherry had a basketball tournament and everyone is here.”

Me “Yall took all three cars for that?”

Aunt “Oops… we did.”

Me “Can someone come scoop me and I drop them back off at the HS?”

Aunt “Well…. The tournament is in Joliet so I don’t think that can happen.”

Me “Okay cool, I’ll just call a cab.”

I got dressed and called a cab. While sitting outside waiting for it I noticed a white 1995 Oldsmobile Cutlass circling the neighborhood. About the 5th time around I realized…. this was the cab. WOW. Brotha man was using his own car as a cab service.

Me “HEY STOP THE CAR!!!!!!!!!”

Cabbie “My bad baby, I was confused by the street numbers.”

Me “That’s okay, can you just get me to the metra station… and fast.”

Cabbie “I don’t know the neighborhood… where is the metra station?”

Me “How are you a cab driver and don’t know where important locations are? You are lucky I used to live here and know…. What if I didn’t… this would be a HUGE problem!”

He begins to drive as I directed every left and right he needed to take.

Cabbie “You are cute.”
Me “Thanks”

Cabbie “What are you doing tonight?”

Me “Nothing that requires any of your concern.”

Cabbie “So you from Chicago?”

Me “Long story… would you please pay attention to the road. You ALMOST RAN that light!”

We finally get to the metra station.

Me “Thank you. How much?”

Cabbie “Well shawty since I did not know how to get here…. 10 dollars.”

Me “We didn’t even go 2 miles… whatever here” (I handed him a 20)

Cabbie “You don’t have anything smaller… I aint got no change.”

Me “How are you a cab driver… with no legit cab, no knowledge of the area… and NO CHANGE! Hand that 20 back please.”

I sat in the back and looked at this fool through the mirror.

Me “So what you want to do, cause all I have are 20s?”

Cabbie “Let’s go get change.”

Me “FALSE! My train will be here in 6 min and the next one does not come for an hour. I don’t have time for that. How about you write down your address and I’ll send you a check.”

He actually did this… please…. I’m not sending him shit.

Later that night I was back at my aunt and uncle’s getting ready to go out for the night when my cell rings.

Cabbie “Hey, It’s Leon. I gave you a ride earlier. I’m sitting in the driveway if you want to come out and give me my money. Perhaps I can take you out.” (WTF!)

By this time I had walked upstairs and my dad and uncle were looking at the weird expression on my face.

Me “I’m not home. I’ll get at you later.” I quickly hung up.

Uncle “Who was that?”

Me “That ghetto ass cab service I was telling you about earlier… he was sitting in the drive just now and told me to come out and bring him his money.”

Dad “HELL NAH! How do you get yourself in these situations?”

Me “Blood of my blood, flesh of my flesh! You passed a gene that attracts HOTT MESS!”

3 weeks later I was at work when my phone rang.

Cabbie “Aye, It’s Leon. How are you?”

Me “Leon? Who? I don’t know anyone named Leon.”

Cabbie “I picked you up and took you to the Metra when you were in the Chi.”

Me “The dude with the Cutlass?”

Cabbie “Yes, that would be my cab. I provided you with a service and I have yet to be paid for my service.”

Me “Your service was WHACK!”

Cabbie “Would you please send me a check for the amount of $10. Otherwise I could just go to the house I picked you up from and get it.”

Something about this dude was not right! Plus, I did not want him tormenting my family!

I sent him a money order for $10….please he was not getting my checking account information. I have not heard from him since.

To my NY friends who always laugh at me for making sure the cabs we get in are certified…. this is why.

I never knew $10 was so serious! Moral of the story. Don’t get in a Cutty with a buster named Leon.

Blame it on the Al-al- al- al- Alcohol

The other night I covered an event that was pretty much a bust. No big time celebs worth talking to. As I was putting my recorder away a random Joan Rivers looking woman tapped me on the shoulder.

Woman “I love your glasses!” (I had my Jay-z steez in full effect). I think I know you… aren’t you a reporter?”

Sigh… what gave that away? The recorder and notepad in my hand? (side-eye)

Me “Thank you. Yes I am.”

Woman “I am a celebrity dog trainer. I have been on many shows.” (she named a bunch I had never heard of). “Would you like for me to talk about Obama’s new dog!”

Well, if she had inside info on the first pooch… this night would not be a total bust.

Me (holding recorder to her mouth) “So, what can you tell me about dog Obama?”

Woman “I think he should name the dog CHANGE! We sure do need one and that name would be appropriate!” (insert cricket chirps!)

Me “Ummm…. Is that all you have to offer. Do you know anything else about the dog? Besides that it is a rescue Portuguese Water dog?”

Woman “It is SO wonderful that they are giving a wonderful home to a rescue dog! If the dog is not named Change… Alec Balwin told me they should name it Surplus! We sure need a SURPLUS!!!” (insert even MORE crickets)

Me “The NBC 30 Rock star told you this personally?”

Woman (taking a big swig of her drink) “But of course! I am a celebrity dog trainer!”

Me “What celebrity pups have you trained?”

Woman “That is confidential! But the quotes I gave you would be GREAT for your publication.”

GAME OVER. I’m mad I even entertained that CRAP. That was not funny to me yesterday… but today for some reason I am ROLLIN about that! Complete waste of my battery!